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拿着放大镜看书看东西确实很清楚,然而带着放大镜看问题却是庸人自扰之,问题的放大化只会让自己徒增烦恼,未雨绸缪是好,但过早过急却是自找烦恼,我不知道怎么样才能把握这个度,我也不知道怎么去规避这个问题,遇到了提前比谁都着急、瞎想,可能原本就没有那么夸张的事情无形之中就被弄得人人皆知、乌烟瘴气、为难别人为难自己,有时候很难真正做到大事化小,小事化无的。就拿我来说,昨天听到室友说6号要第二学位的毕业答辩顿时就慌了,怪学校不提前通知,怪青海离重庆那么远,怪自己没有一点儿预见性,怪自己没事儿干嘛还弄个第二学位,不冷静想想办法却是使劲找各种理由,埋怨这个抱怨那个,原本不喜欢把抱怨带给别人的我也变成了那样。心情很不好,很着急,不愿花五天的时间去完成一个十几分钟的答辩,对我来说最近的时间跟金子一样宝贵,励志考上公务员的我不忍心大把的时间浪费在这个上,但是不去答辩又怎能对得起花了三年时间的第二学位呢。人就是个矛盾体,纠结体,有时候不愿付出和失去却想着得到,有时候愿意付出和失去却宁愿得不到。从昨天下午到现在被我视为宝贝的时间就这样流逝了,当然不包括现在写这些的时间,因为这会儿的我是很理智的,很清楚明白自己应该怎么去做,回想整件事情的经过反省自己的愚昧、无知。成熟稳重是我的追求,我想要那样的自己,严格要求自己,不要以别人的底线为自己的底线,长大吧,让自己放心让别人安心,把积极快乐的自己带给身边的人。

拖延症很恐怖。本上不断写着“明日复明日、明日何其多”心里念着这个事儿没做那个事儿忘了,行为却是一如既往的忽略写的和念的,拖延症就这样吸走了我的正能量越来越强大、以致我落下别人那么多,有时候脑袋突然清醒了战胜了“魔”,我想对我来说克制它的最好方法就是对自己的懒惰有小小惩罚,并不断提醒自己不要忘了目标和理想。以前有段时间尝试过每天合理安排自己的时间,每天都按安排走,每晚做反省和计划,发现那段时间过得真的很充实,没有太多的杂念拥有更多的收获,每天进步一点点。

那天翻开心爱的本本发现以前计划里的好多事儿都没有行动,试问连对自己的承诺都做不到还能做什么,决心好好对自己,好好生活。

求正能量,让小宇宙爆发吧!明天会更好!

30条评论

  • 夜枫

    其实每个人都有这样的时候,庸人自扰,总是喜欢的问题放大化,在别人看来时鸡毛蒜皮的事情,到了自己手里却变成比命更重要的事情了,不过可以看出你对待每一件事情都很认真,这也不是一般人所能做的,像我三天打渔两天晒网,收获只是寥寥可数的,认真对待一件事情是非常苦难的,尤其是你把他当成了习惯,不管怎样,这样的习惯或许将来对很有利,认真是种态度嘛~,关于拖延症,那就更疯狂了,该做的事情刚开始还记得,后来直接忘掉了,直到最后才发现自真没有认真做,并且是一种很不负责的表现,不过自己能够意识到自己的错误所在,还能救。不过接下来的日子你可要坚持,坚持到最后的才是赢家,至于答辩,问问老师,可否推延或者是问个怎么情况,毕竟家远,我想老师不会为难你的….输的认字有点多…..

    • Leyaep:

      @夜枫@夜枫: 嗯,跟老师说了情况,老师同意我延期答辩,估计过两天又得回学校一次了,现在想想事情可以很快很简单的解决,之前是太过急躁了。公务员今天开始报名了,选个好职位继续努力~哈哈~

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  • Leyaep

    十年~说长不长说短不短,相识相知相恋,陪在你身边的人不断在换,相信我是最刻骨铭心的,那些山盟海誓转眼消失得无踪影,我还在原地的时候你已经走的好远了,有一天我毅然决然的放下了不愿再想起,不知不觉中其实已经把记忆的碎片捡起了,你是否也会在不经意间想起我,想起那段沉淀了的记忆,今晚跟朋友电话提到你了,一时记忆泛滥成灾,想起很多很多,如今我不再是以前的我,以前想起你更多的是回避更多的是痛更多的不舍,现在有幸福有祝福有微笑,因为放下了。恭喜我走出了有你的日子,走进了寻他的生活,恭喜我能微笑着祝你幸福,祝你幸福~

    • 夜枫:

      @Leyaep@Leyaep: 我想说的是你有点单纯 , 但是过去的只能成为过去,羁绊你的就是那些已经成为记忆的记忆,对于现在的他来说之前的海誓山盟如同儿戏一般,不足为信,你会明白的..

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