自省

拿着放大镜看书看东西确实很清楚,然而带着放大镜看问题却是庸人自扰之,问题的放大化只会让自己徒增烦恼,未雨绸缪是好,但过早过急却是自找烦恼,我不知道怎么样才能把握这个度,我也不知道怎么去规避这个问题,遇到了提前比谁都着急、瞎想,可能原本就没有那么夸张的事情无形之中就被弄得人人皆知、乌烟瘴气、为难别人为难自己,有时候很难真正做到大事化小,小事化无的。就拿我来说,昨天听到室友说6号要第二学位的毕业答辩顿时就慌了,怪学校不提前通知,怪青海离重庆那么远,怪自己没有一点儿预见性,怪自己没事儿干嘛还弄个第二学位,不冷静想想办法却是使劲找各种理由,埋怨这个抱怨那个,原本不喜欢把抱怨带给别人的我也变成了那样。心情很不好,很着急,不愿花五天的时间去完成一个十几分钟的答辩,对我来说最近的时间跟金子一样宝贵,励志考上公务员的我不忍心大把的时间浪费在这个上,但是不去答辩又怎能对得起花了三年时间的第二学位呢。人就是个矛盾体,纠结体,有时候不愿付出和失去却想着得到,有时候愿意付出和失去却宁愿得不到。从昨天下午到现在被我视为宝贝的时间就这样流逝了,当然不包括现在写这些的时间,因为这会儿的我是很理智的,很清楚明白自己应该怎么去做,回想整件事情的经过反省自己的愚昧、无知。成熟稳重是我的追求,我想要那样的自己,严格要求自己,不要以别人的底线为自己的底线,长大吧,让自己放心让别人安心,把积极快乐的自己带给身边的人。

拖延症很恐怖。本上不断写着“明日复明日、明日何其多”心里念着这个事儿没做那个事儿忘了,行为却是一如既往的忽略写的和念的,拖延症就这样吸走了我的正能量越来越强大、以致我落下别人那么多,有时候脑袋突然清醒了战胜了“魔”,我想对我来说克制它的最好方法就是对自己的懒惰有小小惩罚,并不断提醒自己不要忘了目标和理想。以前有段时间尝试过每天合理安排自己的时间,每天都按安排走,每晚做反省和计划,发现那段时间过得真的很充实,没有太多的杂念拥有更多的收获,每天进步一点点。

那天翻开心爱的本本发现以前计划里的好多事儿都没有行动,试问连对自己的承诺都做不到还能做什么,决心好好对自己,好好生活。

求正能量,让小宇宙爆发吧!明天会更好!

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