闲谈裸辞

什么要写裸辞?或许我们每天都有辞职的冲动,甚至是每天好几次要想辞职的想法,写一封辞职信急冲冲走进领导的办公室,甩在他面前,顺带说一句“老子不干了”,记得去年还是前年一封“世界那么大我想去看看”的辞职信火了,为什么一时火的那么厉害,原因之一是我们都想去看看,原因之二是他有我们想做而没有做的魄力。2019年的这个时候我也申请了辞职,我不是想去看看这个世界,也不是有了更好的发展平台,只是想找回一度丢了自己的自己。

毕业之后就去了格市,一呆就是五年,收入可以,生活也自在,没有什么压力,但干燥的气候是一直未能适应的,过敏反复,心里装着一个梦还未曾实现。2019年工作变动,人际紧张,周围的一切是压抑的,就连空气都不是流通的,压抑的让人喘不上气儿。谁曾料到剧本中的故事能发生在我身上,我也无意中走进了这个剧本。攀登不到顶峰永远没有全而大的视野,跌不到最谷底永远不知道深渊有多深。我站在深渊凝望着,想要冲破那压抑的环境,找到属于我的天地。事实证明只要有勇气,冲破也是一瞬间的事情,只是属于我的天地还尚不可知。

裸辞意味着失业、意味着没有收入、意味着所有的保险都停了,意味着买什么都要掂量着。但那又如何?压不垮的只会让人更强大。裸辞的前提是得有存款够你生活,得有计划,辞职后的这段时间你要做什么,更要有心理准备应对各种压力,比如家人的压力、社会的压力。辞职后不要着急找下一份工作,而是想清楚为什么辞职,接下来想要一种什么样的生活什么样的工作。其实这一年来,我也没有想象中那么大的压力,在存款的范围内过上了计划经济,其他都如愿,甚至比想象中更好,当身体没什么压力心情愉快的时候健康也就如约而至,此为一喜;在好友的帮助下找到了自己喜欢的工作,此为二喜;兜兜转转之后遇到了那个疼我爱我的他,此为三喜。

裸辞并不可怕,可怕的是自己的心态垮了。当你想要做一件事的那刻,永远都不会晚,永远都是最早的时候。感恩我身边默默支持和帮助我的人。

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    想到这些还是不敢辞职。

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